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Online Dating Help
By Sharon Vickery
Well before you dive straight in and open that laptop on a Sunday afternoon when all your mates are busy and you’re home alone I just want you to STOP and slow things down a little.
Unless you’re ready to date again, unless you’ve taken a closer look at the unfinished business in all of your relationships and the patterns that you’ve created with men, no amount of online is going to help. In fact, it may just make you more despondent and feel like giving up altogether.
I want you to avoid that so first take the time to get yourself in order, after all I’m guessing you want a great guy that’s pretty sorted himself, so the same will be true for him. The good guys want a woman that’s fun, intelligent and one that has her ‘act’ together.
Once you’re ready to find him then here are a few key tips to get you started
1. Get clear on how great you are and what the key qualities you’ll be bringing to this new man
2. Understand what qualities and values are important for you in the man you’re looking for
3. Learn how to express who you are in your profile to inspire the RIGHT man to contact you
4. Learn what photo’s you MUST put up, and which
ones to avoid
5. Create the right mindset to date online and to keep positive until the right man turns up
6. Be patient but persistent. Online takes time and commitment. Be sure to set aside enough time each week to make this work for you
7. Keep things in balance. Remember, online is just one way of finding the right man so continue to go out with friends and enjoy life, after all that’s what will make you attractive to the right man at the end of the day.
8. Keep yourself safe. You’ll hear people giving you all sorts of advice and bad stories about online dating, but in the 5 + years I dated online I never felt unsafe.
If you use bags of common sense, make sure you speak on th phone at least once before you meet and never go anywhere private until you get to know him then all should be fine. Above all, use your intuition and if in doubt, back away.
9. Finally, be sure to have fun when online. It’s a great way to meet lots of fabulous men who are serious about finding a long term partner.
For more help or to get my complete guide to online go to
http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/salesHowtoHaveFun.php
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